Did something go wrong between you and partner, causing either or both of you to turn away?
If you were on the right track to making a loving, contented relationship and somehow managed to fall off the track, do not worry. It is absolutely possible to get your ex back provided you follow the right steps.
What Are You Really Fighting About?
Can anything be made different by prevailing in the on-going debate between the two of you, or is it more valuable to just nip it in the bud and move on? Is the issue even worth disagreeing about first of all? Many splits can be stopped or quickly rekindled if the debate is settled.
Amazingly enough, many breakup related debates are absolutely needless, and may be cast aside if only the parties concerned could let the matter slide. It might be better to let go of “being right” over these concerns in order to let peace prevail.
Relax and Let Some Time Pass
When you’re feeling more calm and relaxed, and your ex is feeling the same, this is when true resolution can ultimately become part of the dialogue between both of you.
A little time and distance never hurt anybody. It is crucial to maintain polite conversation and communication, but take emotion out of the situation as much as possible if you’d like to survive this sensitive period of time right after the breakup.
When you and your ex are not feeling so hot headed about the issue that led straight to the breakup, this is when you can sit down together and work through to a solution. If you truly want to get your ex back, it is important to find the patience to move forward slowly with graciousness.
Follow a Step by Step Plan
Having a plan of action to follow is essential to avoid the pitfalls of emotional decisions. Saying or doing the wrong thing after a breakup can seal the deal for good and you’ll have lost any chances of getting back together.
T.W. Jackson’s book The Magic of Making Up, helped me to stay focused and rational and his step by step plan turned my relationship around quickly. Not only that, but it provided the insights needed to continue to keep our love intact.
Learn how to get your ex back using tried and true common sense methods that thousands of other people have implemented to get positive results. True love is not easy to find and it is certainly worth the investment in time and effort to nourish it.